KerryOn: The Em Makes All the Difference

The word “power" can be used in a variety of ways. As a noun it can be used to describe control or influence over a situation or person. As an adjective, it can describe someone who exerts that control or influence. Or it can be used as a verb, to describe the ability to power through difficult times. Yes, the word power can be used in many ways to describe people and circumstances. But when you add two little letters, it adds an entirely different dimension and perspective to “power”.

By adding “em”, the word suddenly describes a transition – the movement of power from people who use it, to people who need it to re-balance some form of inequality or injustice. The focus of power becomes a way to support and uplift. To empower someone is to make them feel strong, vibrant, perhaps even invincible. Empowerment is not about taking, it’s about giving.

People who empower others show their true strength in how they give power to others. Empowering people might highlight someone’s inherent value, or they could push someone to bring out their best, thereby showing them what is possible.  

This is one of the reasons I love developing leaders; I have the distinct privilege to witness the empowerment of my students as they explore their unique strengths, talents, and abilities. It’s the same feeling I have when I feel empowered myself to explore new opportunities, be courageous with my actions, and take risks. It’s the “em” that makes the difference between doing nothing and doing everything.

The best part is, when we empower somebody, we can’t do it without getting a little bit of power splashed back on us! If we can start to empower ourselves in our everyday lives, we can add value to the world by allowing others to shine. Ask yourself: when is the last time you've felt empowered and when is the last time you've empowered someone else? Empower those around you. The “em” makes the difference, and that difference is pretty powerful.

KerryOn Questions

- What do you do to feel empowered?

- How do you empower those around you?

- What are ways you can make the difference with the em?

The Kerry behind KerryOn

My name is Kerry K. Fierke, Ed.D. (pron. Fear-Key) I have a unique combination of skills and experience – decades of fast-paced corporate experience in Fortune 100 companies and large health care organizations, combined with the academic rigor of a highly ranked research university. My focus is supporting others to create their own path to leadership development, lifelong learning, and a unique leadership legacy. Take a moment to focus on leadership, then KerryOn!

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